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The absence of flaw in beauty is itself a flaw- Havelock Ellis

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The first season of the E! network reality t.v. show, Bridalplasty, recently came to an end. Each week the contestants participated in a series of events in order to receive various cosmetic procedures, and ultimately win the opportunity to have a dream wedding. The tasks they competed in reflected the wedding concept and each week the two contestants who found themselves at risk for elimination had their fate determined by the other contestants. Their fellow brides-to-be would R.S.V.P. and join either of the women at their table. The contestant with the least amount of guests would then be eliminated. The last contestant left would receive her wish list of plastic surgery procedures and a dream wedding.

Keep in mind that the groom won't get to see his revamped bride until she walks down the aisle. Forget blind date, how about blind wedding!? Call me crazy, but I'd like to know who to expect on my wedding day.

Although the idea of a reality t.v. competition show isn't new, this series caused quite a controversy during it's run. I personally believe the show's premise was one of the most ridiculous concepts ever. These women had found men who loved them and who wanted to marry them the way they were, but still they were not satisfied and they felt the only way they could achieve their dream wedding was by drastically altering their appearance. The perfect wedding should be determined by the amount of love that the couple has for each other and not by something as superficial as physical appearance.


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Don't get me wrong, every bride wants to look beautiful on her wedding day and that's understandable. However, I also feel that enhancing one's natural beauty is completely different than creating a false illusion of beauty. I think the show gives the wrong message and an unrealistic message at that, by promoting perfection at any cost. I  personally believe that everyone has qualities that make them beautiful and unique. God doesn't make mistakes; everyone looks the way they do for a reason, and I don't believe in playing God through unnecessary cosmetic procedures for the sole purpose of vanity. After all, vanity is the quicksand of reason.